found this video,

This was the crazeist pregnancy ever. I have never had a baby that was so active. i could just sit and watch her move.

the secret

so the best thing about today was the fact that we got to go to Church. Ty was so cute we got to put her hair in her first pony tails. it was exceptionally cute. considering she is six weeks old and has pony tails. The kids went to there new primary classes and Keylee and Blake are no longer in nursery. They both did really good until they started to hand out balloons to those who has birthday and they really wanted one. but other then that the transition was really good. We love our ward. we have some dear friends, hi Becky :) and i have had great visiting teachers. Tj has allot of friends and growing up in this area he has people he already new and people that new his family. even out bishop new his grandfather really well. The girls love being her because they get to play in the snow. Which being in the valley they don't have. We got them in there boots ski pants hats gloves and coats and its still cold. but its snow. We watched a interesting video tonight it was called "The secret" Its not a movie that you see in the theater. But some thing you buy from Barnes and Noble. Basically it tells you about how you get what you put out. The law of attraction, you reap what you sow, how ever you word it it's true. Tj and I then talked about how it related to our life and the church. And what we wanted to change in it. so we both busted out with our journals and started writing our goals etc. If you have seen you know what we are talking about. If not go find it and watch it. It remind us that we control everything in our life all the good and all the bad. We cant be accountable for each other just our selves. So now we will see what new and amazing things happen. Anyone needs to borrow it let us know.

babies sleep so weird

a new ring

Wow so my hubby is really good at spoiling me! so we had talked about getting new ring when we got sealed in the temple. Well he jumped the gun. We went together with my parents on friday night for date night. It was the first time we have been as a couple. It was so nice. i cant express how wonderful it is. Be both talked on the way home about how this time for the both of us was like a book being opened and read clear to us. why is that maybe we are finally in tune with the way our lifes should be? But one things for sure we walked away from it both saying "i love you more" why is that? becuase god is the only thing that will and can keep relationships together. God HAS to be the foundation of it or it will slowly unravel. We are human so natually we care about worldly things and often get caught up in them even when we dont realize that we do. not until we find our self fighting with our spouse over stupid things. The best quote i have ever heard went like this " Stop arguing over whos right and start discussing whats right" if we all where foucussed on whats right not who is right how many less fights would we have with our spouse or other people in our lives? something to think about!

new baby pictures

So we finally got to get hadlees ty picture taken and they turned out so good, its to bad it cost so much to have them. but they last forever i guess.

One thing i am learning is nothing melts tj heart faster then this new little girl. The other night he walked in and gave me a kiss like usual, but the first words out if his mouth was. "where is my little princess" and he went right in the room and picked her up. He cant stop kissing her either and everytime she gets a bath, well she has to shower with her dad, she loves loves loves them, yesterday she actaully fell asleep while in there with him. Its a great thing! And i think after we go to the temple tomorrow it will make us all closer.

Split personalities

so our bishop who is excellent, had a nice little talk with Tj two Sundays ago. It was about how people have "split personalities", why would this matter you might ask, well unfortunately we have one of those people in our life's. I didn't really think much about it being a real problem with people until now.
So people with this chemical imbalance most of the time don't or wont recognize they have it. They really DON'T LIVE IN REALITY. They think what ever they believe is true, and they can actually have the truth in every form laid out in front of them and they wont believe it. They come across to everyone as a liar, because they are one but they don't believe it. They have intense mood swings and often use people, lie, cheat and steal. Because in there mind its OK. They can be that great church going person on Sunday but on Saturday night they where at the bar drinking (sound familiar yet?)
The worse is the lying there is usually no extent to it or the damage it can cause. They have relationships that don't really exist with people who don't really care about them. They steal things they think is theres. Most of the time they can talk there way in our out of anything. You would hope that there family would intervene and help them and recognize the situation for what it is, but sadly enough they don't.
Bishop said they dealt with a man in our community who did the same thing, the tragic ending was he committed suicide he literally went crazy.
So my question is how much is a chemical imbalance and how much is just loving the drama and attention. They usually have a addictive personality, they are addicted to the drama, the alcohol the cigarettes, the men, the lies.
So where is line? is She really crazy? or bi polar? or does she just have multiple personalities? Or does she just love being like this? guess we will never know......... although everyone that really knows her and has dealt with her over the last few years knows the truth. all our votes are on multiple answers!
At least people like the bishop have been able now to see the truth, because although she cant see the lies she tells others can.

Hadlee Ty Scarbrough

OK so i might actually start using this thing we shall see.

So lets see updates first, we had our beautiful baby girl on Nov. 30Th a month early but lucky for us i have big babies and so she weighed 6lbs 7oz. except by the time we took her home she had almost lost a pound so we spent a lot of time going back and forth to showlow and the doctor. and she had jaundice so her poor little feet got poked and poked and poked. she is my trooper. Tj and i both have felt her strong little spirit from the day we found out about her coming to us. for those who believe in aouras (spelling?) around people.... we have a friend who can see and read them. we seen him when we where three months along and he immediately said your pregnant? yes we are.... its a girl and she has a very very Strong spirit, he said, and he was right!

Delivery was painful the more i had contractions the worse my kidney stone hurt and the worse the kidney stone would hurt the worse contractions got. we did everything from walking to the jacuzzi to getting a birthing ball, anything for natural pain control, i new once i hit a five i would go fast like my other two it just takes me a while to get to a five...... let me back track a second.... i went into preterm labor at 28 weeks found out i had kidney stones at 30 weeks and remained on percact, terb, mag, and nephedapine the rest of the pregnancy, we also had the steroid shots and a amnio, that's why she is our little fighter its a lot for a baby to go through even in the belly :)..... so when we went in we where dilated to three and 75% effaced and at a two station. we could not have kept her in another month even if we wanted to.

So when we got to a five i called for a epidural, she was in surgery for a hour i new a hour was to long i was right she walked in the same time the Doctor did to deliver oh well.

So the best part of all.... Tj got to deliver her! Dr Tindall let him suit up with him head to toe and he walked him through it to bad my little sister who was video taping just about passed out and so we didn't get that on video. but it was so awesome to look down and see my wonderful husband holding our new baby crying and handing her to me while i am crying, well actually i think everyone there might have been a little teary. My mom my sister, Mandy his sister and Helen where all there it was nice. So that's the story of how Hadlee Ty Scarbrough came into this world. We couldn't decide on her name until we had to put it on the birth certificate in order to leave the hospital. It was Hadlee, Tylee, Ty, Tylee mae, so we settled on Hadlee Ty, but we pretty much call her Ty, well princess Ty.