Happy birthday amilee! my oldest is growing so fast! we love you mom and dadsSaturday, May 2, 2009
DIsicpline Your Kids!
OK so i need to be very careful about what is say, but i really really need to vent. So how do you tell a mom her child is a nightmare, when they think they are a angel. Are they really that blind to the situation? This child can not stop lying, about everything, this child steels things, this child has no idea what the word NO means! you say no, and they completely ignore the fact they where told no. But worse then that this child is mean, constantly picked on the other kids and i mean physically hurting them and making them cry. You hear the other kids telling there parents they don't want to play with them or be around that child because they are so bossy and mean.
I have actually heard the mom joking about how she cant follow through with discipline, and how "there just kids". ya but the kids always grow up to be adults and worse then that Teenagers!
So when this child gets arrested for stealing, kicked out of school for fighting, or lying, sneaks out and heaven forbid has a child when they are 16, do you say "i told you so"!?
But you cant tell the mom why, because it will just lead to drama, hard core drama. And yet you don't want to start drama you just want this child to be the best they can be and you know this stems from there home, they do it because they can, and that reflects on the parent and that's why they get pissed off. But let me tell you if it was my kid i would appreciate it if some one would tell me. If i felt like my daughter needed help i would get it to her, if she is being a bully at school she needs a nice butt whooping at home, she would need to know its not fun to be picked on and hurt. And there is nothing wrong with spanking your child its not abuse. you have to know when you should just have a time out or when you should spank. And bribery is not the answer, they should do stuff because you tell them to not because they have to always have a reward. because they will always expect one. kids need to be self motivated because they know if they help out they will get a big hug and praised for being such good helpers, and a occasional reward is not bad, like you guys did so good this week lets go to the park and play.
So i have talked to three other moms about this and they agree, so at least i know i am not the only one who feels this way.
So maybe we all need to talk to the people around us and check our kids because they might not be who we think they are, or maybe you actually know exactly how they are and you are just ignoring it?
oh on and on we could go, but whats they use, not trying to start a fight i promise trying to make a point!
I have actually heard the mom joking about how she cant follow through with discipline, and how "there just kids". ya but the kids always grow up to be adults and worse then that Teenagers!
So when this child gets arrested for stealing, kicked out of school for fighting, or lying, sneaks out and heaven forbid has a child when they are 16, do you say "i told you so"!?
But you cant tell the mom why, because it will just lead to drama, hard core drama. And yet you don't want to start drama you just want this child to be the best they can be and you know this stems from there home, they do it because they can, and that reflects on the parent and that's why they get pissed off. But let me tell you if it was my kid i would appreciate it if some one would tell me. If i felt like my daughter needed help i would get it to her, if she is being a bully at school she needs a nice butt whooping at home, she would need to know its not fun to be picked on and hurt. And there is nothing wrong with spanking your child its not abuse. you have to know when you should just have a time out or when you should spank. And bribery is not the answer, they should do stuff because you tell them to not because they have to always have a reward. because they will always expect one. kids need to be self motivated because they know if they help out they will get a big hug and praised for being such good helpers, and a occasional reward is not bad, like you guys did so good this week lets go to the park and play.
So i have talked to three other moms about this and they agree, so at least i know i am not the only one who feels this way.
So maybe we all need to talk to the people around us and check our kids because they might not be who we think they are, or maybe you actually know exactly how they are and you are just ignoring it?
oh on and on we could go, but whats they use, not trying to start a fight i promise trying to make a point!
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